I have been hearing this phrase for months now, especially as Crossfit and boot camps become more popular.
So I've been mulling it over, trying to decide if I agree or if it is some sort of excuse to give women who can't force themselves to be skinny. I know, it sounds harsh, but this has been my thought process.
Ever since I was 16, I've been trying to be skinny; sucking it in every chance I get. It's almost been 12 years, let's face it, skinny isn't in my future. Now, don't get me wrong, I am not fat by any means. I'm not skinny, but I'm not fat. According to BMI and ideal body weight standards, I am overweight by about thirty pounds; which always seems to throw my friends when I tell them. Let's be honest, I've got a little junk in the trunk and it's going nowhere fast!
Let's get to the bottom of this strong versus skinny debacle. When I went searching for a picture to add to this post, I Googled the phrase, "Strong is the new skinny," and guess what I found? . . . . . Give up? Let me tell you: A bunch of super skinny girls wearing next to nothing, with signs or tanks saying "Strong is the new skinny." Seems like an oxymoron to me. How can I possible agree if my search results in skin and bones and seldom, a strong woman? What kind of message does this send?
I think the slogan began with good intentions. And, don't get me wrong, I'm sure it has helped many women out there overcome the mental aspect of just trying to be skinny. However, for myself, I call BS and you're welcome to as well! I claim Strong is Strong, and Skinny is still Skinny. They are different and they should remain separated!
When do you feel you are at your strongest? Pre-workout? Mid-workout? Post-workout? My feelings of strength reside in Spinning and running. I feel strong when I am out in third and hammering the beat of a fast-paced song. I feel strong after one of my long runs. I feel strong on a rest day, because I'm aware that I'm doing what's best for my body. What about you?
For my own sanity, I am going to stop trying to force skinny. Instead of trying to feed myself lines of "Strong is the new skinny," I'm going to set my sights on this little beauty and even add that "Strong is the new happy!"